Finally! A proven path for you to understand WHY you drink, and HOW to have a better relationship with alcohol.
Inside Try Dry for 30 (including the BONUS 30 after 30!) you’ll get everything you need to understand your desire to drink so that you can establish a relationship with alcohol that works for YOU.
The Doors are Officially Open!
Tell me if this sounds like you...
You want to have a BETTER relationship with alcohol.
You need to figure out WHY you’re drinking too much from time to time…or more!
You have constant inner-mind chatter, and feeling as if you’re in a daze.
You’ve done trying to cut back on your own, or worse, LYING to yourself.
You’re tired of feeling like an imposter or pretending to have your act together.
You wish there was a way to quit drinking, or moderate successfully, without feeling deprived or left out.
Well, GOOD news!
I help my clients with those same struggles every single day.
And if you’re like any of them, you’ve probably felt this one too or had beliefs that just weren’t true.
beliefs like…
Myth 1:
I just need more willpower or motivation!!
You don’t need willpower – you need mind power! This isn’t about white-knuckling it or counting days!
In my course, you will learn WHY you desire a drink and how you’ve “trained” yourself to want it. You will learn how to unlearn that desire by applying the tools I provide.
Myth 2:
I can’t have fun or socialize without drinking.
In my program, you will know how to use your time that will produce fruitful outcomes in your life, not waking up feeling like crap.
You will know how to occupy your time while enjoying yourself and not missing a thing (except the hangovers, slip of the tongue, setting a bad example for your kids, driving intoxicated, and so on)
Myth 3:
I just need to get enough time under my belt.
This takes more than just building up some time on the calendar. Unless you work through the triggers and urges, you won’t fully understand the desire.
With this program, you’ll have the ability to develop a relationship with alcohol that is best for you, not based on someone else’s story.
Myth 4:
I don’t want to say I’m an alcoholic or be told I have to quit.
First of all…this program is called Question the Drink, not Quit the Drink.
I believe in empowering others to be, have, and do what they want. You won’t be asked to give up anything. You will learn why you drink, how your thoughts and feelings turn to choices that you GET to make, and knowing you are in control.
Myth 5:
If you drink too much, you must be an alcoholic.
This is what society and recovery programs have implied. This is NOT true. Not everyone that drinks too much from time to time is an alcoholic. About 50% of the population that consumes alcohol is in the gray area. This may include binge drinkers and the nightly “just a few glasses of wine” drinkers, and everything in between.
Myth 6:
I will be missing out and losing what I love.
What if you knew you could have the best time of your life and not drink? What if you could attain much more than you could ever imagine just by questioning the drink? What if you could establish a relationship with alcohol that was edifying to your soul, rather than playing the devil and angel on your shoulders? In my program, you will learn the “how-to” have a fulfilling life, even if that doesn’t involve alcohol.
Imagine…
There was a way to have a better understanding as to why you drink…
You could finally have REAL confidence, not just liquid confidence…
You could enjoy your evenings, meals, and friends without a desire to drink…
You could have clarity, energy, weight loss, a calmer mind, more money, look AND feel better…
or left out.
All of that is possible inside
Join NOW, the doors will be closing soon!
Bonus!
Module 1: Set the Stage
Phase 1: The Big Why
Phase 2: Solid Foundations
Phase 3: Everyday Effort = Expansion
Module 2: Mind Management
Phase 1: The Five Drivers of Habit Formations
Phase 2: Disrupting the Patterns
This is the intro phase into how and why disruption and redirecting works to change behaviors.
Module 3: Tools of Disruption
Phase 1: This is where the “rubber meets the road”.
You will learn the powers of pattern disruptors.
Phase 2: The SABER
Phase 3: Think Through the Drink
Phase 4: The Power of Breath
Module 4: Next Steps
Phase 1: Threats and Distractions
Phase 2: The 4-Steps to Socializing Success
Phase 3: Fear of Missing Out (FOMO)
Phase 4: Decisions Lead to Choices
Phase 5: Community and Your Story
Who is this right for?
Busy Professionals
You have limited time on your calendar and you can’t fathom the idea of going to a public meeting to question the drink. This course is the perfect blend of personal attention with consuming the short videos on your timeframe. It will give you the tools you need to feel in control and confident, without just pretending to have it all together.
Curious Lurkers
You’ve thought about giving up drinking for awhile, but just not sure if you want it to be a permanent choice. Perfect! This course will show you the reasons why your drink, tools to work on your triggers and urges so that you can make confident future decisions about drinking.
Alcohol-Free & Future Driven
Perhaps you’re already alcohol-free but still trying to understand your relationship with alcohol. Oh goodness, this is the course for you! Looking at your original why for wanting to stop PLUS the tools of how to remain alcohol-free with set you up to finally experience total freedom from feeling like you’re missing out.
This is for you if…
✅ You want to cut back, take a break, or quit drinking altogether.
✅ You consider yourself a gray area drinker – the space between socially drinking and severely abusing alcohol.
✅ You’re already alcohol-free but still strongly desiring a drink from time to time.
✅ You’ve tried this on your own many times, but don’t know why you can’t seem to get it under control.
✅ You’ve been successful for a period of time, PROVING you can do it, but you’re overwhelmed by not understanding why you always go back to it.
✅ You’ve made a pact with yourself only to drink on the weekends, but realize that’s just false promises you have a hard time keeping.
✅ You want an easy, straightforward process to understand your relationship with alcohol in just one month.
On the flip side…
This is not for you if…
⚠️ You’re severely abusing alcohol or identify as an alcoholic or addict.
⚠️ You’re looking for a magic bullet.
⚠️ You’re not willing to do the work needed or think you can’t do it.
“I didn’t identify as someone with a rock bottom addiction but knew my alcohol use was holding me back from being my best self. I just didn’t know there was something for the sober curious called Gray Area Drinking. That is until I found Kari.
What started off as a discovery call about Questioning the Drink, turned into a life-changing event. I decided to work with Kari as my coach to change my views on alcohol use. Turns out, she helped me ask better questions about myself and in turn, was able to have a huge mindset change. Once you see the possibilities you can’t turn a blind eye to the past. Kari finds a way to pull the Why out of you and get clarity on what is most important in your life.
I highly recommend working with Kari!”
~Nate P.
Meet your coach, Kari!
Hi! I’m Kari Schwear, a 7x career path conqueror turned Gray Area Discovery Coach. I work with high performers that are willing to Question the Drink and discover a better relationship with alcohol, and with themselves.
I’m the founder of GrayTonic and created the ‘Question the Drink’ & ‘Try Dry for 30’ programs after my own experience as a former gray area drinker left me frustrated and confused with traditional programs.
I designed this breakthrough path for those in the gray area between drinking socially and severely abusing alcohol who would benefit from discovery when they don’t need recovery. Both of my signature programs have delivered my clients an astounding 100% success rate!
As a former gray area drinker myself, I know what it’s like to say no to the second, third, or fourth glass of wine. (drink)
I get you because I was you. I know what it’s like when you’re first questioning the drink. And that’s exactly why I created Think Through the Drink. I wanted you to have a quick and easy tool that you can use that would really help when you feel stuck in the decision-making process of having a drink. It’s the same concept of what I first began using when I was questioning the drink and have improved it over the years.
There's more! You'll also get...
Live Weekly Coaching with Kari – ($1450 value), weekly calls for support, Q&A, and live coaching.
QTD30 Try Dry for 30 Private FB group – ($850 value), created ONLY for those in the Try Dry for 30 group coaching program to share commonality and support with live training.
The Five Drivers ($595 value) The key to all success is mindset and understanding how your brain works. It’s not about white-knuckling or counting days. Learn the Five Drivers and why knowing this will forever change your life in ALL areas, not just with your choice to drink alcohol.
The SABER pdf with videos – ($495 value), this mindset tool with take you from experiencing urges, triggers, inner mind chatter, and more to a place of control, calm, and with gratitude. It will move you from a negative state to a powerful state within minutes.
Drink This! – ($397 value) Not sure what to drink? Need that pucker power that you believe only wine can provide? Well Drink This! is a great tool to have on hand when you’re just starting to question the drink and need some inspiration. Choose from the many recipes, alternatives, and more!
Food for Thought ($397 value). A curated list of supplements to help curb your cravings, while nourishing your mind and body with the right foods, and much more! Crafted by a Doctor of Pharmacy and Nutritionist.
Think Through the Drink – ($185 value) by asking GREAT questions, you will make GREAT decisions. Learn this easy-to-use method that will help you to make decisions that will best serve you.
Everyday Effort = Expansion ($295 value) The importance of good daily habits is obvious, but are you doing the ones that are suitable for YOU? Learn the top-recommended habits and why implementing these will fill your tank every day.
Private Voxer Channel – ($700)
Previously reserved for my 1:1 clients, get DAILY support with me via a private Voxer channel with no more than 15 people in each group. This daily support has been a game-changer for previous clients. Experience why when you sign up today!
Frequently Asked Questions
Maybe you’re wondering if this is for you. I got you covered here too.
I've never done anything like this before. How do I know if this is for me?
If you have a strong desire to make changes and willing to do the work, you will have the tools and framework to help you be successful.
Will I have to stop drinking for the entire time?
It is recommended for you to create a clean slate, yes, but if you should have an off night or two, get back on the horse and let’s keep going!
Will I have to participate in the live coachings, say my name or show my face on camera?
No, you can remain anonymous if you choose. Simply delete or change your name for the Zoom calls and keep your camera off. I will add that most people get a better experience if they play full out and show up authentically, but you do not have to if you’re not comfortable.
I'm a busy professional and don't have a lot of extra time. How much time do I need to allocate each week?
With the weekly hour coaching calls, short videos and action items, plan on approximately two hours per week.
Is this course for both men and women?
Yes! I coach both and welcome all.
What happens if I still need or want support after the 30 days?
No problem, I got you covered! That’s why you’ll have AN EXTRA month with me via the live coaching calls. Plus you’ll have access to the private Facebook group and lifetime access to the online modules.
You also have the option of one-on-one coaching with me. We can decide together if that’s a good option for you.
My partner isn't ready to question the drink with me. Will I still be successful?
Yes, you can still be successful. You might even be a role model for them! This program will show you how not to isolate yourself from others, but rather to show you to be comfortable around others that are choosing to drink, even if you’re not.
Will I learn how to moderate my drinking?
Perhaps. The goal of the course is for you to discover why you’re drinking and to understand your triggers and urges. You may decide after taking a 30-day break that you don’t want to go back, but if you do, you’ll have some tools to help you along the way. My personal goal for you is to develop a relationship with alcohol that works for the long run, not just for the next 30 days.
What if this doesn't work for me, is there a refund available?Are the coaching calls held the same day of the week? What happens if I miss one?
It’s strongly encouraged to be present for the calls, but if you cannot attend, you will have access to a recording.
What if I'm currently in a program or seeing a therapist? Will this still benefit me?
Absolutely! Many people have been very successful with having different approaches. It’s not an “or” — it’s an “and”. The course work will only add to your current program, thereby giving you additional benefit.
If you've read this far...
You have two options:
Continue to spend more time and energy trying to figure it out on your own…
Or, finally have a proven path for understanding why you drink so you can finally have the relationship with alcohol that best serves you.
Imagine where you could be just one month from now.
You’re ready to be in control of your drinking.
You’re ready to stop lying to yourself and pretending to have it all together.
You’re ready to start putting yourself first and living a healthier lifestyle.
You’re ready for a way to establish a better relationship with alcohol.
You’re ready for more confidence, clarity, energy, and money in your pocket.
You’re ready for Try Dry for 30…plus another 30!
When you join the Try Dry for 30, you’ll also get access to a private Voxer channel where we will communicate daily for the entire 30 days! You will have me in your back pocket every day to ask questions when you get stuck.
A total value of $5979
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