Work With Kari Schwear

Confidential, personalized guidance for growth-minded leaders ready to step out of the gray — and into clarity, purpose, and emotional alignment.

Whether it’s habits like drinking, identity, marriage, stress, or the quiet coping behaviors behind your success, this work meets you where you actually are. You don’t need a crisis. You don’t need a label. You just need a willingness to tell the truth and take the next step.

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Four Ways to Step out of the Gray

Every pathway is built for leaders who want clarity, direction, and meaningful change — without the noise or overwhelm.

The Gray Area Insight Experience

A neuroscience-backed diagnostic that reveals the hidden patterns behind your habits, fog, and stress.

Private 1:1 Coaching

High-touch support for leaders ready to create deep, lasting alignment across the Core 4 areas.

His / Hers / Ours

A data-driven clarity process that transforms communication, understanding, and connection — without therapy or blame.

COUPLES

Transformational Retreats

Immersive experiences that reset the mind, reconnect the heart, and restore a sense of purpose.

NEUROSCIENCE-BACKED CLARITY

The Gray Area Insight Experience

See yourself clearly. Finally.

This experience gives you the truth your mind has been trying to show you — the patterns, processing styles, stress responses, and decision-making habits that shape how you lead, love, and live.

Using the Intellect Scan as the foundation, we connect neuroscience and data to your real life, and create clarity you simply can’t access on your own.

What's Included:

The Intellect Scan

Your cognitive, motivators, and behavioral wiring revealed

Two 90-minute private sessions
A personalized written summary
Clear, practical next steps
Ideal For:

Leaders, business owners, or partners who want to understand what's driving their gray areas — and what will finally get them out.

What We Work On:

Includes:

1:1 Coaching

Private 1:1 Coaching

High-level support for leaders ready for honest, meaningful change.

This is where we dive into the Core 4 — Body, Being, Balance, and Business — and address the patterns keeping you in the gray. This work is confidential, tailored, and rooted in clarity, identity, and aligned habits.

It’s not therapy.

It’s not surface-level accountability.

It’s real transformation for people who are used to carrying everything alone.

HIS / HERS / OURS EXPERIENCE

His / Hers / Ours

For couples who want understanding, not conflict. Connection, not guessing. Clarity, not walking on eggshells.

It’s not talk therapy.

This isn’t crisis cleanup.

This is a neuroscience meets data-driven, heart-opening experience designed for couples who want to understand each other at a deeper level — newly committed, long-term married, or anywhere in between.

Using the Intellect Scan, we uncover how each of you thinks, processes, responds, and connects… and then bring it all together to strengthen communication, empathy, and partnership.

Ideal For:

What's Included:

Two Intellect Scans (His + Hers)

Three 90-minute sessions:

IMMERSIVE EXPERIENCES

Transformational Retreats

When you change your environment, you change your life.

These retreats are designed for leaders, couples, and teams who need space to breathe, reflect, reset, reconnect, and remember who they are again. No distractions. No noise. Just deeply intentional experiences built around movement, connection, breathwork, reflection, and aligned action.

Personal Retreats

A neuroscience-backed diagnostic that reveals the hidden patterns behind your habits, fog, and stress.

Couple Retreats

For partners who want deeper connection, communication, and shared purpose.

Leadership & Team Retreats

For teams needing clarity, cohesion, emotional intelligence, and aligned vision.

SUPPORTING MODALITY

Conscious Connected Breathwork

Breathwork is one of the most powerful tools I use inside coaching and retreats. It quiets the mind, releases stored tension, and creates emotional clarity in a way talking alone never can.

It’s offered intentionally to support breakthroughs when needed.

You're in the Right Place If...

You’re a growth-minded leader, business owner, or partner.

You feel successful on the outside but overwhelmed or disconnected on the inside.

You’re using alcohol, work, or coping habits more than you’d like to admit.

You value confidentiality, honesty, and depth.

You’re ready for clarity and emotional steadiness.

You want stronger communication and connection in your relationships.

You want aligned habits, not chaotic ones.

You’re ready to do the real work — and you want the right guide.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching rooted in clarity, identity, behavior, and aligned action. We focus on forward progress, not talk therapy alone.

No. This work helps you understand your relationship with alcohol — and make decisions from clarity, not force.

His / Hers / Ours uses data, not “feelings,” making it very accessible for analytical minds. It’s not a “he said/she said” session, but rather a desire to seek understanding that has not yet been seen.

They’re intentional, meaningful, and deeply restorative — designed to meet you where you are. Each person’s experience is their own and they receive what they need.

Yes. Absolutely. Confidentiality is a cornerstone of this work.

Ready to Step out of the Gray?

Your clarity begins with one conversation.

The Intellect Scan

What the Scan Looks At

The scan reveals three core areas:

1. How You Place Attention
Where your mind naturally goes — people, action, or the future —
especially when making decisions or navigating stress.

2. What Truly Motivates You
What drives your behavior beneath the surface
(often very different from what we think motivates us).

3. How You Show Up Behaviorally
Your natural tendencies in communication, energy, structure, pace,
and leadership — both at your best and when you’re under pressure.

What to Expect
  • You’ll complete a short online scan (no prep required).
  • The results are reviewed in a guided conversation — not just handed to you.
  • The experience is reflective, practical, and often surprisingly accurate.
  • Most people walk away saying, “This explains so much about me.”

This isn’t therapy.
It’s not about digging into the past or rehashing old stories. It’s about clarity.

How It Helps Moving Forward

The real value of the Intellect Scan is how it helps you move through life with more intention and less friction.

People often use it to:

  • Make better decisions with less self-doubt
  • Understand why certain situations drain or energize them
  • Improve communication in relationships and at work
  • Reduce internal tension and overthinking
  • Stop fighting against how they’re wired and start working with it

It gives you a clearer understanding of:

  • Why you do what you do
  • Why some things feel harder than they should
  • What you need to feel supported, focused, and grounded


This isn’t a surface-level personality test.
It’s a tool for self-awareness, growth, and alignment — something that continues
to be useful long after the initial experience.

Whether someone is navigating a new season, feeling stuck, or simply wants to
understand themselves more deeply, this scan offers fresh eyes on who they are
and how they move through the world.