Habits

Am I Drinking Too Much?

Am I Drinking Too Much? How to Recognize the Process of Change (Before You Are Ready)

For years, I asked myself the question, “Am I drinking too much?” I didn’t know how to recognize the process of change before I was...

How to Socialize Without Alcohol and Still Feel Like Yourself

There was a time when one of my biggest fears about giving up alcohol had nothing to do with alcohol itself. It was, “How to...

We often think moderating alcohol is easier, but is it really? Find out in this week's blog.

Why Moderation Feels So Hard

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about why moderation feels so hard. And here’s what I have found: It’s what you brain has to do...

Asking what gray area drinking is doing for you. It has a job to play. It often takes a deep look into your truth.

Gray Area Drinking is Doing its Job

Let me start with something you might be thinking but haven’t been able to say out loud in fear that you’ll have to actually do...

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Gray Area Drinking Moderation… Can It Be Done?

Let’s talk about the truth of gray area drinking moderation. How much of your day is spent thinking about drinking? Not the actual drinking… the...

5 Signs You're in a Gray Area

5 Signs You’re In a Gray Area

We all experience storms in our life that we don’t prefer. Yet, it’s all part of life, right? Things happen, but there is always a...

Comfort Is a Trap: Why We Stay Stuck in Our Gray Areas

One thing I’ve noticed over my several years of coaching is this: Most people don’t stay stuck because they’re lazy. They stay stuck because their...

Gray area drinking and Dry January

Gray Area Drinking and Dry January

Gray area drinking often becomes most visible during Dry January, when the pause exposes what alcohol has quietly been doing in your life. Calling it...

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Daily Habits: The Proof of Your Identity

Let’s talk about the invisible force that either keeps you stuck or sets you free… Your habits. The tiny, almost forgettable things you do every...

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Your Identity: Stop Trying & Start Being

Let’s talk about the ONE thing that absolutely needs to happen in order for change to stick. You can’t become someone new while clinging to...