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Saber Method

How to Make Better Decisions

How to Make Better Decisions

Have you ever made a decision that didn’t turn out well? We’ve all been there! But why do we sometimes make bad choices? More often than not, it’s because we don’t like to feel bad. We only know how to escape our feelings, which can lead us to self-sabotage. So what can be done? The answer is pretty simple. All we have to do is take a step back and examine what is really going […]

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Redirect – Part Five of SABER

Redirect – Part Five of SABER Welcome to the last step of the SABER flow, Redirect. This is the ACTION step where we shift our attention to gratitude and making a NEW empowering decision.  Having gratitude in all situations isn’t easy, especially if you’ve been struggling with something or moving through a difficult experience. I totally get it.  But I’ll have you consider the meaning of gratitude.  The Latin root of the word gratitude is […]

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Embrace is Self Grace – Part Four of SABER

Embrace is Self Grace – Part Four of SABER

I love the word Embrace.  The definition means an act of accepting or supporting something willingly or enthusiastically.  It’s also an essential part of the SABER flow.  Embrace is something you may be tempted to skip over as you move through the SABER process. Why? Because it can feel selfish, or self-serving. It can also be difficult to accept the circumstances in front of you. So why is it important to support yourself willingly or […]

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BREATHE – Part Three of SABER

BREATHE – Part Three of SABER

Breathing is a precious gift.  We don’t have to think about it, of course, but what happens when we do it with deliberate intention?   SABER is an easy flow to put into play whenever you find yourself fighting an urge, temptation, inner mind chatter, or when you’re experiencing an emotion that you don’t prefer.  By using breath deliberately, you are self-regulating and calming your mind and body.  Let’s recap the SABER up to this point.  […]

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Acknowledging Your Thoughts, Part Two of SABER

Acknowledging Your Thoughts, Part Two of SABER

Today we are continuing the SABER flow by looking at the A in SABER.  ACKNOWLEDGE You just learned about the importance of saying STOP out loud when you find yourself in a power struggle within your mind.  By saying STOP, you could bring awareness of this inner mind struggle forward to your conscious mind where you rationalize thinking.  Now that you have successfully paused the inner chatter, it’s time to acknowledge the thinking.  What are […]

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STOP, Part One of the SABER

If you’re like me, you feel as though you can’t turn your brain off at times, as if there are hamsters on a wheel in your head. Or perhaps it’s an urge to have or do something you probably shouldn’t have. Or maybe you find yourself angry and ready to pull your hair out because you’re so stressed!   What should you do when you find yourself experiencing this power struggle?  STOP! Say the word stop […]

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Hi! I’m Kari Schwear, Founder of GrayTonic, and the Question the Drink movement.

I’m a perpetual life-learner, a 7x career path conqueror, Executive Lifestyle Coach, Author, and Speaker. I’m also a former hot mess that was stuck in several gray areas of my life (drinking being the top one!) and wondering how I got there. This blog is a columniation of my methodology, teachings, beliefs, and personal struggles that I’ve endured over the years. I hope it blesses you.

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