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The Borrowed Identity: How Gray Area Drinkers Use Alcohol to Become Someone People Will Like

There is a version of many of us that used to show up reliably, right around the second or third drink. It’s the borrowed identity...

Why Sleep Is One of the Most Powerful Things You Can Do to Protect Your Brain After 50

I want to share something personal with you this week. Something that drives a lot of what I do, how I live, and honestly, why...

How to Socialize Without Alcohol and Still Feel Like Yourself

There was a time when one of my biggest fears about giving up alcohol had nothing to do with alcohol itself. It was, “How to...

We often think moderating alcohol is easier, but is it really? Find out in this week's blog.

Why Moderation Feels So Hard

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about why moderation feels so hard. And here’s what I have found: It’s what you brain has to do...

Gray area drinking moderation

Gray Area Drinking Moderation… Can It Be Done?

Let’s talk about the truth of gray area drinking moderation. How much of your day is spent thinking about drinking? Not the actual drinking… the...

5 Signs You're in a Gray Area

5 Signs You’re In a Gray Area

We all experience storms in our life that we don’t prefer. Yet, it’s all part of life, right? Things happen, but there is always a...

Comfort Is a Trap: Why We Stay Stuck in Our Gray Areas

One thing I’ve noticed over my several years of coaching is this: Most people don’t stay stuck because they’re lazy. They stay stuck because their...