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How to Know the Secret of NOT Drinking

How to Know the Secret of NOT Drinking

How to Know the Secret of NOT Drinking


Many of us marvel at how some individuals lead lives untouched by the taste of alcohol. In contrast, others find themselves caught in the merry-go-round of evening drinks, often searching for that elusive balance between casual and overconsumption.

The answer doesn’t lie in a rare gene or a mystical talent. The secret weapon is surprisingly simple: A Decision.

Unmasking the Myth of Willpower and Genes

One of the biggest misconceptions surrounding alcohol consumption is that those who abstain or drink minimally possess exceptional willpower or a special gene. The truth? Neither willpower nor genetics hold the sole key to the puzzle.

Trying to force yourself through sheer determination, setting rules around consumption, or switching your drink choices might seem like viable solutions, but these methods often lack lasting impact.

The Power of Decision in Leadership and Life

Successful leaders who opt for alcohol abstinence aren’t born with a unique power. Rather, they possess one shared trait: consciously deciding not to drink.

It might sound overly simplistic. Yet, consider this: There was a moment in your life when alcohol wasn’t part of it. You made decisions daily without the influence or need for a drink. The power of choice isn’t foreign – it’s merely forgotten.

Choosing not to drink isn’t a reflection of one’s strengths or weaknesses, but a conscious decision about what aligns best with personal goals and values.

Your Story – Your Choice

If you find yourself in the gray area of drinking, where it’s not a severe problem but still a concern, remember this: Your relationship with alcohol is a narrative you craft daily.

You are the author of your story. While alcohol might have been a character in some chapters, you have the authority to decide its role moving forward.

Unlocking Super Success

You’ve achieved success, but imagine the heights you could reach with full control in all areas of your life, including your relationship with alcohol. This isn’t about deprivation but empowerment.

For those ready to rewrite their story to embrace true success in every facet of life, the first step is always a decision.


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Hi! I’m Kari Schwear, Founder of GrayTonic, and the Question the Drink movement.

I’m a perpetual life-learner, a 7x career path conqueror, Executive Lifestyle Coach, Author, and Speaker. I’m also a former hot mess that was stuck in several gray areas of my life (drinking being the top one!) and wondering how I got there. This blog is a columniation of my methodology, teachings, beliefs, and personal struggles that I’ve endured over the years. I hope it blesses you.

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